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Thread #37201   Message #520905
Posted By: Liz the Squeak
04-Aug-01 - 07:45 AM
Thread Name: Help: UK Catter at Risk
Subject: RE: Help: UK Catter at Risk
I was shocked out of my suicidal depression by someone suggesting ways of doing it. He asked what I would prefer, short and sharp or long and lingering. He then proceeded to give me all the medical details of what would happen if I fucked it up. The vegetable state seemed infinately worse than what I already had, and that was the turn I needed. It doesn't work for everyone.

Just keep being there. The only way to work through crap like this is to just be there. If you wash your hands of them, it will be the last straw. Just keep telling them you're there and that you always will be.