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Thread #151797   Message #3551503
Posted By: GUEST,Grishka
21-Aug-13 - 03:11 PM
Thread Name: BS: Situation w/ living arrangements
Subject: RE: BS: Situation w/ living arrangements
I see: CPAP was/is the medical problem. Quick googling shows that a humidifier is considered "more and more" obligatory, but does not solve the problem completely. It stands to reason that the lost water must be replaced in the morning, but it seems that your thirst is/was beyond that. In those "other places", the staff seems to have had incomplete knowledge of your medical situation.

Good to read that it seems to have improved.

As for "limited options": although considerations of power and options are facts of life, it is wise to steer clear of them as long as possible - particularly between persons who share a building. This applies to everybody including the manager (whom you quote saying "she wouldn't have lashed out at staff had she been me", sounding like a threat, hopefully unintentionally).

There is nothing wrong with having wishes, and I would never use the notion "spoiled" in that context. Do not "cave in", just apply diplomacy with the help of your parents and friends. Best of luck!