Mudcat Café message #1895080 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #96544   Message #1895080
Posted By: autolycus
28-Nov-06 - 06:30 PM
Thread Name: BS: Should a lady make the first move?
Subject: RE: BS: Should a lady make the first move?
A fascinating discussion.

Is it possible to make the right suggestion(s) given that every single relationship is unique?

It does still seem a problem for me,61-y-o man with 2 grown-up daughters and divorced STILL to know if there's any clear boundary between taking some kind of initiative, sensitively as poss., and being thought of as objectionable/threatening. hence I rather take the let-her-make-the-first-move approach, while wondering if I'm encountering a lot of 'waiting-for-the-bloke- women.






       Ivor