Mudcat Café message #1894122 The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #96544   Message #1894122
Posted By: Richard Bridge
27-Nov-06 - 07:50 PM
Thread Name: BS: Should a lady make the first move?
Subject: RE: BS: Should a lady make the first move?
Bad luck. Worth a try though. We all feel for you but don't let the let-down (don't call it a "rejection") get you down. Also don't let that cause you to lower your own standards.

Do remember however that men can be just as negative about their own body images as women and some will reject advances because they fear their own body image. It is conventional wisdom that women are less bothered about physical appearance in their partners and it may be a safeguard to make it clear that that is not a make or break issue (assuming that to be so).

Also remember that candy is dandy but liquor is quicker - although alcohol, while it increaseththe desire decreaseth the performance.   Alcohol may therefore be said to be an equivocator.