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GUEST, BS: Xmas beliefs/pride grumblings (39) RE: BS: Xmas beliefs/pride grumblings 16 Dec 01

I think if she gives you one or two gifts somewhere in the season, you should graciously accept them. If she is giving you a heartfelt gift every day for each of the 12 days, that is a bit imposing on her part. In fact it is an attempt to control I would say. That goes way beyond what most people do in terms of gift giving unless she is from a culture that routinely does that. You can respect each other's policies while maintaining your own, unless it gets extreme on either side. mg

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