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Claire M BS: is this naive/silly?? (30) RE: BS: is this naive/silly?? 13 Jul 14


I feel disliked. This seems to be ongoing. I think the Black Cloud is descending again.

Any ideas how I can stop it in its tracks ??

I'm told I'm lucky to be able to live where I do & do so much for myself, but I still feel as if I've failed & I'm disliked. Flatmates have said the nastiest things to people who work here ever, but nothing seems to get done about it. When my Consort / I are cross (he gets wound up more easily than I do), all hell breaks loose. 1 of us usually me -- gets an absolute rollocking .

I feel like I'm not allowed off-days. I can't stand it anymore. I could write in a journal, but I don't want anyone finding it. I could go to my flatshare's boss, but I've never really felt that comfortable w/ her, cos she's 1 of these people that can't admit when/if she's wrong it's always someone else's fault.

I've been lent another lot of spiritual books, basically saying you should ignore what/who upsets you/makes you angry cos you've a team of heavenly/divine spirit guides/companions on your side who think you're great but you can't rely on them all the time (should they even exist in the 1st place)

& what if it's hard to get out & about/ignore who/what upsets you. What do you Catters do ??

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